Let’s face it: Breaking up sucks.
As girls, we’ve all been there at some point…
It doesn’t matter if one of you got dumped, or if it was a mutual break up.
You will miss your ex-boyfriend. And being cut off by someone you love will always hurt.
But here’s the thing most girls don’t realize:
There’s at least a tiny part of him that misses you too.
We all know guys like to play it cool and don’t want to show their emotional side…
But deep inside his heart, there is still a place for you.
This is true no matter how cold and mean he is to you right now, or how quickly he is trying to move on.
Here’s the good news:
There are a few simple, but extremely powerful ways to make someone miss you using psychology.
The Complete Guide: How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Love You Again
If you want to make him yours again, then pay close attention to this article.
Our team of dating coaches and relationship experts have helped thousands of women around the world get their ex-boyfriends back, and make their relationships better than ever.
Here’s the mistake most girls make:
They try too hard to please him and win him back.
Sadly, this never works, and they end up pushing him away and ruining any chances of repairing the relationship.
The secret is to do the opposite:
Instead of trying to “win him back,” you have to make him think that it was HIS idea.
In other words, you have to get him running back to you, and beg YOU for a second chance.
Today, our team will show you EXACTLY how to make him chase you again and come back fast.
Simply follow the 5 steps below, and he will suddenly miss you like crazy, and start chasing you for another chance.
Step 1: Cut Him Off Completely
Here’s an important truth about a man’s psychology:
Men respond to silence and distance.
It might seem silly at first, but going “no contact” for at least a few weeks will INCREASE the chances of getting your ex-boyfriend back.
Think about this for a second:
When you start a relationship with a man, you grow closer and closer to him…
And over time, you become comfortable with each other.
But suddenly, the breakup happens and your bond is cut.
It will feel very strange to suddenly be alone. And when you leave a man alone with his thoughts, his emotions will begin to build up…
It’s important not to feed his desire and give him the comfort of your contact at this point. When you cut him off, he will miss you.
On the other hand, if you text him or reach out to him, he won’t miss you as much.
Remember: You want his emotions to build up, and you want his regret and desire for you to get stronger and stronger.
So let him go to get him back – It sounds silly, but it is an extremely powerful technique.
Step 2: Make Him Jealous
One of the strongest human emotions is jealousy.
You know that terrible feeling you get in your chest when you see your lover with another girl?
Now it’s time to make your ex-boyfriend feel the same way.
You see, it’s not enough to make a man miss you…
You have to get him completely obsessed again, and make him run back to you and beg you for a second chance.
The best way to do this is to make him regret treating you badly and breaking up with you.
Here’s how:
First, you have to show off your new single life without making direct contact with him.
This is a bit tricky, but there are a few ways to do it.
For example, post regularly on social media. Make posts of you having fun, going out with friends, and meeting guys.
Another way is to maintain contact with his friends. Casually update them on your life. Eventually, the news will reach him whether he likes it or not!
Here’s the thing:
Sometimes, you have to pull away from him to get his attention.
When he notices that suddenly you’re not there anymore, he will wonder about you and find ways to look you up…
Either by stalking you on social media, or asking his friends!
When a man realizes he lost you, he will suddenly feel a surge of regret and jealousy.
This is when he will start wanting you back, and lose control of himself just thinking of you!
Step 3: Remind Him Of Happy Memories
After a few weeks, you can slowly reconnect with him, and subtly tempt him with the thought of getting back together.
By now, he will be thinking of you all the time and have serious breakup regret, even though he may be trying to hide it.
At this point, you can reach out to him, but you must do it in a casual manner, without letting him know that you’re trying to get him back.
The goal here is to turn all that jealous frustration into a desire to get back with you.
One of the best texts to make him miss you is to remind him of happy memories in your relationship.
This will make him realize he needs you, and trigger an uncontrollable need to reconnect with you inside his heart.
The key is to do it casually.
For example:
“Hey, I was just hanging out with someone and we passed by the park where we had our first date. Hope you’re doing well.”
This text is perfect for a number of reasons:
First, it’s short and sweet, without much emotion. It shows him that you have been moving on without him just fine, and you are not overly invested in what he thinks.
Also, there is a sense of mystery. After weeks of zero contact, he will be wondering who you are hanging out with, and whether it is your new boyfriend.
But most of all, it brings back a good memory that you both shared as a couple.
This will spark an urge in his heart to come back to you and chase you again. He will miss your relationship badly, and want you back.
Guys fall in love when they miss you. And this will be like falling in love all over again, only much stronger this time around…
Step 4: Give Him A Chance To Miss You
By now, you should have a good idea of the RIGHT way to get your ex-boyfriend back:
Let him come to YOU and chase YOU, instead of trying to win him back.
At this stage, your goal is to make him miss you more, and occupy his attention and thoughts.
You want to make him wonder about you all day long, so that eventually he will have no choice but to beg for forgiveness and another chance at your heart.
So here’s what you do:
In the coming weeks, he will try to reach out to you.
When he does, respond positively and passively.
Here’s what we mean:
When you respond to him with positivity, you will encourage him to open up to you and reach out more.
It will also remind him of how good it felt to be in a relationship with you, making him miss you even more…
But because you’re doing this passively, it will force him to work harder and chase you.
Here’s an example:
This might sound like an innocent reply, but it is the PERFECT text to send back.
Here’s why:
First, it is full of positivity, showing him that you are not bitter or resentful of the breakup.
It also motivates him to keep reaching out to you, and gives him a small taste of the good feelings he gets being with you.
But it is also passive – You are simply responding to him, and nothing else.
You don’t talk about where you took the picture, or ask him “how are you” back. You just respond with a short, positive comment.
This means HE has to move the conversation forward. The responsibility to make things happen is on HIM.
In other words, he has to work to win your heart back!
Step 5: Slowly Accept Him Back Into Your Life
Eventually, your ex-boyfriend will be desperately obsessed with the idea of getting back with you.
He has realized what he is missing out on when you leave him and what a wonderful woman you are (even if he doesn’t admit it).
The only thing you need to do is to let him back into your life.
The key is to do this slowly: You have to make him treat you like a queen before finally forgiving him.
For example, make your replies slower when he texts you. And slowly warm up to him again.
If he asks to meet you, reject his first offer and suggest another day and time instead.
Also, keep your hangouts brief and casual – You don’t want him to think dating you again is going to be easy!
Finally, when you feel you are finally ready to give him another chance, say this to him:
“How do you feel about me now?”
This clever little sentence basically FORCES him to make a move on you.
And since you went through the 5 steps slowly and carefully, he will be even more in love than before.
How To Reconnect With Him Without Any Awkwardness
If you’re shy or heartbroken, it might be quite difficult to follow the steps in this article.
In fact, it can feel quite nerve-wracking trying to reach out to him again.
After all, one wrong move can completely destroy your chances of getting back together.
Here’s the good news:
There are a few clever tricks you can use to reconnect with him without feeling awkward or weird.
They work even if he’s ignoring you right now, or if he says he hates you.
To learn EXACTLY how to do this, check out our free video now:
Here’s the sad truth:
The longer you wait, the harder it is to get back with him.
As time passes, he will begin to forget about all the happy memories in your relationship…
And he will start thinking of other girls instead…
And soon, his heart will be devoted to another woman, leaving you behind completely.
That’s why it’s important to act FAST if you want a chance to get him back.
So start using the tips in this video today, and watch for yourself how quickly he comes back into your life!